The invitation
came towards the end of September. A
quick glance at the calendar revealed three or four Veterans’ Day performances
the week of the celebration. We could
not go.
I thought we
might get away the week following Veterans’ Day, but that week got filled in,
too. As it turned out, it would not have
been a good thing.
It was a 90th
birthday party for two, a surprise, prepared by their daughter. The parents were both born in 1927.
The birthday girl is
the last survivor of “the cousins”, the grandchildren of Ole and Anna, my great
grandparents. She is the last connecting
link to a bygone generation.
Last summer, we
lost the last of my cousins who actually knew my paternal grandmother, Martha. While I did visit with Barbara, I lacked a
lot of getting everything she had experienced with our grandparents. I thought of other missed opportunities. Aunt Dell would have been six years old when
the family moved from Minnesota to a homestead in the desert of Eastern Colorado. She would have remembered that trip, but I
never thought to ask her about it.
I decided it was
now or probably never, so we set off on our trip to Boise. We could have flown. The Goodwife found fares as low as $60 round
trip. We would have had to go on Tuesday
and return Thursday. It didn’t seem
right to make a flying trip. So we drove.
It was a two-day
trip by automobile. We left on Tuesday
and returned by the following Saturday.
We arrived in Boise
mid-afternoon Wednesday. We found the
90-year-olds in good shape for having lived nine decades. Both use walkers, but they get around. Both are sharp mentally. There have been
issues. Had we visited in November, we
probably would have had to visit one of the guests of honor in a hospital or rehab,
recovering from spinal surgery.
We originally
intended to rent a motel room for our stay, so as not to be a burden, but they
were fully prepared to have us stay with them, so we did.
We jumped right in to sharing what we knew about
our extended family. Out came the old
suitcase with pictures that don’t see the light of day very often. We also reviewed the family history book.
We dined on
lasagna thoughtfully provided by daughter Mary (my second cousin). Mary’s constant attention makes it possible
for her parents to remain in their nice modern home.
It was midnight
before we gave it up Wednesday. Among
the family “secrets”: a bootlegger who
had a hollow doorframe where pints could easily be hidden and easily removed for
sale to customers. She would lie in the dark by the railroad tracks waiting for
the train car that would expel a keg. The
keg’s contents would be transferred to pints, the pints hidden in the hollow doorframe. She may have been a madam as well. She was one of the few financial success
stories in our family.
Tragedy—the youngest
brother died in the flu epidemic during WWI.
A suicide using the gas from the lamps that
provided the light in those olden days.
When the homeowner returned and struck a match to light the lamp, a mini
explosion occurred. Unfortunately, that
isn’t the only suicide. Suicide is a
family plague.
The number of
violin or fiddle players in the family.
Music has been a part of the family for a long time, as Ole was the song
leader at church where there were no musical instruments. He apparently had near-perfect pitch. Many of his children were musicians.
The self-same
Ole was somewhat of a sex fiend who mistreated his wife. Some of his sons built a house for their
mother and forbade Ole to enter therein.
The homesteaders
who ventured from Minnesota to Colorado.
My grandfather and two of his brothers made the first foray in
1907. Carpenters all, they built a “suitable”
dwelling (my older aunts referred to that house where they grew up as “the
chicken coop”) and returned to Minnesota for the winter. In the spring of 1908, the entire family
moved to their home on the planes.
Apparently, all
three brothers filed homestead claims.
Two relinquished their claims and returned to Minnesota when Ole
died. They took over the Minnesota farm
and cared for their widowed mother.
A story I was
able to add concerned my good Neighborly and a conversation we had one
day. He asked my Grandfather’s
name. I said John or Johannes. No that wasn’t the right name. Was it Joe?
No. How about Ingeman? That was it.
The story
Neighborly told involved his late wife and a grandson. They were at an auction where the grandson
took a liking to a framed document, which was apparently a charter for an insurance
company, maybe Modern Woodsmen or something similar. Shirley bought the thing for her grandson, who
still has it today. The charter is signed by the charter members. Among the signers was Ingeman, who apparently
was around the country long enough to help start the organization.
“Uncle” Joe,
Mary’s grandfather, was a great letter-writer.
I remember a letter or two Papa got from Uncle Joe. They were indeed entertaining. He encouraged Papa to keep on living, as he
was about to make it to one hundred.
(Papa lacked three or four years of making 100. He always protested that he never asked to
live so long.) Uncle Joe was the last of
Ole and Anna’s family. He died in 1979.
We spent much of the day Thursday immersed in
the olden days until we all grew tired and had to take a rest. Thursday evening, we were guests of Mary and
Lance. The evening was only slightly
marred by the malfunction of the meat smoker, and for the locals, a bigger
disappointment with Boise State’s defeat in the first round of the Mountain
West basketball tournament.
We took our
leave on Friday morning. Parting is
always hard, particularly when you realize this may be the last time to visit
each other on this earth.
I had hoped to
visit Yellowstone on our return trip, but it would have been late afternoon
Friday when we arrived. We had no
reservations and I wasn’t sure what the weekend traffic might be, so we opted for
a more direct route.
I had also
hoped to find a hot springs to visit, maybe spend the night there. My wires got crossed. I thought Soda Springs, ID would be the
place. We went through Lava Springs on
our way to Soda Springs. No hot springs
in Soda Springs. Go back to Lava Springs,
the store clerk told us. We didn’t want
to back track, so we pressed on, thinking maybe to stop in Kemmerer, WY for the
night.
We found a
better solution, Montpelier, ID. It had
a nice motel at a not-too-bad-a price.
It was much quieter than the motel in Pocatello where we spent a noisy
Wednesday night (a place two more than the one that keeps the light on for
you).
After a
peaceful rest, we got some advice from the motel lady on which roads to take to
Kemmerer. At Kemmerer, we visited Fossil
Buttes, which really took us back into the past, billions of years. We lunched in Green River, WY, filled with
gas at Sinclair, home of Sinclair gasoline refinery. What a disappointment! The refinery is less than a mile away, yet
gas was $2.55. (We paid $2.32 in
Kemmerer. We paid a high of $3.19 near
Burley, ID.)
We supped at our
used-to-be favorite Korean place in Laramie (Goodwife says she won’t go there
again). We elected to go to Cheyenne and
catch I-25 home—probably not the fastest route from Laramie to Loveland. We arrived home about 9:30 p.m.
We agreed this was
probably the last trip for the old 2001 Chrysler. Things are starting to fail. The heater doesn’t work exactly right. Everything, heat, AC, comes through the
defroster now. We had cold toes a place
or two during our trip. It’s hard to
turn loose of the big old thing. It
averaged 30 MPG on our trip of 1600 miles.
But it turned over 189,000 on the odometer, or distance indicator, as we
say these days.
We were glad we
made the trip. We were glad to be home.